Hmm...

A friend of mine told me a few days ago that the “men (?)” in my life have been taking advantage of me. Hmm… at first I thought she meant it in the ‘green’ way. ^^;; I was wrong. I must admit she has a point. I’ve have had more than 2 guys cancel out dates on me at the very last minute with just the simplest of excuses to explain their reason. Heck, even hotel reservations need more than 2 hours cancellation notice otherwise you get charged a night room plus tax penalty! >.< one guy even chose sleep over going out with me. Sheesh, and here I thought I was a better person to get a better treatment than that. Apparently these guys thought different. So, I was forced to do a leettle soul searching to find out if there is something about Maybelle that makes her dates take advantage of her. Frankly, I thought I was doing just fine on my own. Like, I was courteous, not too demanding, I most definitely do not nag as I hate talking unnecessarily, I was not rude. So, that kind of left me quite puzzled. I did the next best thing: I asked friends what they think. Some of them told me it’s not me, it’s the guys I go out with –or try to go out with, that is. That they’re too involved in their own world to consider other person’s feeling but their own. But then again, I told her, more than thrice makes it a trend doesn’t it? Like for murder cases to be categorized as serial cases, it needs to happen at least 3 times first or something like that. Is it the same with love, dating and such? Kind of disturbing to compare dating to serial murder cases now that I think about it. Oh well.